Pleasure in Watching

If you make love in a dark place in your car, you can hope that you are being watched by the eyes of an outdated and technically uneducated voyeur, who revels in the panting, moans, or even hot scenes. Of course, computers have today shattered that all-encompassing darkness of the voyeur.

For all those who secretly indulge in peeking at others' nudity, especially in the intimate act itself, the term "voyeur" has long been coined, derived from the French word voyeur, from the verb voir which translates to: to watch, to peek, or to observe. However, alongside voyeurs, there are also "eavesdroppers" as a milder subvariant. Eavesdroppers listen to what couples say, achieving sexual pleasure from the sounds, voices, groans, and whimpers heard during copulation. An eavesdropper or listener, whose word also comes from the French language (gl.) écouter, fulfills their imagination with simple noises that average lovers may unconsciously produce in their solitude, but a voyeur, the so-called hidden watcher, observer, is in many ways a more demanding person.

In fact, anyone who has never peeked at their neighbor or some unknown naked person, or who has never wished or managed to secretly and unpunishedly see how girls or women undress, or what they do in their intimacy, is not a true erotomaniac. In fact, whoever has never struggled to gain a position from which they could secretly observe how others make love will never know the pleasures of voyeurism, nor of being a voyeur.
Unlike eavesdroppers, voyeurs, they say, find themselves in a better starting position in their satisfaction, as being a peeper into someone else's intimacy is a much more demanding role. They are, after all, in a position to combine sound with image and enjoy the complete copulatory scene. Clearly, if it is possible for them to enjoy the entire scene independently. If we inquire about the psychological profiles of voyeurs, we learn that they can have a completely normal and satisfying sexual, even marital life when it comes to adults, but their passion for peeking never fades throughout their lives.

Psychopathologists would say that the seed of such a desire to observe a couple making love is sown in early childhood, caused by impressions when a small being was an accidental witness to the love act of their parents. As a rule, these experts exaggerate in their judgments, as it has been proven that all passions in people are meticulously built, and such tendencies do not necessarily have to have a frustrating character.

STIMULATING MALE FANTASY
Girls and women who also peek at boys or couples fall, according to the criteria of erotomaniacs, into the sphere of erotography, which is dear to us. Namely, if we bypass medical truths and the views of psychologists and psychiatrists who attribute voyeurism predominantly to men, and exhibitionism to women. Indeed, the exposure of one's body to the gaze of others seems to be present in women's intentions, as evidenced by almost all fashion trends throughout a more or less tumultuous history. Whether it is about deep, sometimes overly deep necklines, exaggerated or tastefully refined buttocks, more or less protruding breasts, whether it concerns shortening skirts down to the concept of mini-skirts, especially when it comes to toplessness, that is, about bare-breasted bathers, we won't even mention nudism, women are attributed a tendency to provoke and stimulate male fantasy in all of this. This is what experts sometimes think and occasionally speak about, while on the other hand, erotomaniacs are obsessed with female voyeurism in their writings.

SHAMELESS CONFESSIONS
A girl or woman who genuinely tries in any way to secretly peek or observe everything that men, but also women, do in their solitude is certainly the most describable and beloved theme of every erotic literature. Regardless of how much these stories are inspired by truths, and how much of it is merely the fruit of pure imagination of writers, predominantly men, they reveal a deep yearning of creators and consumers of such literature to uncover that darker side of female sexuality, or their tendencies towards voyeurism. Each such scene in which some unknown woman peeks at what adults are doing has, according to some, two goals: The first is to impress the innocent by the mere appearance of the male genitalia, its size, and then the penetration into the hole between the female legs. The second is the revelation and the very beginning of masturbation provoked by the sight of such a scene.

It is quite interesting that in the history of erotica and such literature there are not many descriptions of how boys, or well-built and mature men, peek at couples during sexual acts. Such writings and the authors of those lines are generally satisfied with boys peeking under women's skirts, thus the act of masturbation or peeking through some crack, hole, or keyhole, or staring at adult women while they undress. Indeed, in these authors' shameless confessions, we can easily find true juicy scenes of voyeurism, and this fiction in literature does not care much for men who strive to catch others in the act of copulation. There may be a simple explanation for this, as the writers of such literature are predominantly men, they transfer their secret desires onto the female gender to heighten their excitement. Such passion in role reversals falls into one of the seven deadly sins of every pornography. A young, pure, innocent, yet quite curious and debauched female being, potentially lustful, observes the opposite sex. The discovery of the first peeking at an erect male penis before an innocent face and curious eyes describes the first masturbation of some girl. Everything else is reality.

DIRTY PASSIONS
The imagination of every voyeur is ready to chew on much so that for a few moments of pleasure, absolutely nothing would be lacking. Hidden observation of parents, we almost fantasize about incestuous assaults, guardians as false parents, a woman's wholehearted enjoyment in observing the punishment of boys and vice versa, drawing innocent people into the game, and so on, are just some of the scenes that orthodox voyeurs follow, feeding their imagination so that their excitement while watching and peeking is all the stronger, and many such portrayals are nourished by subconscious desires for sadomasochism.

Pornographic imagination on this topic has, in distant history, been the most present, thus in countless tones of erotic literature that have accumulated centuries of dust, especially in literature produced between the 17th and 19th centuries, which is mostly kept within the catacombs of the French National Library, but which today is gradually coming to light. A favorite scene of these literary works is how a little girl secretly, but intentionally stalks and observes the sexual actions of her father with maids. The action includes, besides observation, the discovery of the little girl in her own arousal, or extinguishing of passion, but that is certainly not all. She is then caught, punished by being whipped on her bare bottom, which is an obvious indication of sadomasochism.
Today, views on such recreation, we hope, are different. Peeking through the keyhole of bedrooms has been successfully replaced by media that will carry nudity on the covers, and with the advent of the internet, everyone is given the opportunity to enjoy, from the comfort of their rooms or offices, the obvious and intentional scenes of peeking into total intimacy for no money and, most importantly, without the danger of being caught and punished. Voyeurism with the help of new technologies gains another dimension. According to statistics, almost every second millions of people in the world connected to the big-small network are seeking sex. This very fact certainly tickles even the most conservative imagination to peek into someone’s cyber intimacy.

So if you make love in a dark place in your car, you can hope that you are being watched by the eyes of an outdated and technically uneducated voyeur, who revels in the panting, moans, or even hot scenes, if he can discern them from the bushes in your car. Of course, computers have today shattered that all-encompassing darkness of the voyeur.

SWEET SPORT
They say voyeurism is a very complex sport. There is a widespread belief that adolescents, so-called virgins, are the most common voyeurs in real life. However, it is known that there are also many adult men who simply cannot resist their own urge to peek through some crack, keyhole, or to lift some curtain, to be drawn to some half-open window on the ground floor of buildings, to peek into some tent in the summer camp, to observe couples swimming behind bushes, or to climb onto a toilet seat watching girls and women as they take off their hot panties and urinate. But is this really real life? Voyeurism is somewhat a legalized matter according to this passion exclusively in erotic and pornographic press, in films or in video tapes.

In our case, while comfortably reclining in our favorite armchair, we stare at the posed beauty, the worst off are the types referred to in English as "peeping Toms" who are indeed pursued if someone catches them in the act or notices them peeking. Peeking into human intimacy is legally treated as a criminal act if practiced in sensitive and dangerous places. While the poor fellow seeks an escape, he often receives a beating. Indeed, many can justifiably feel offended if they find out or notice that some masturbator was watching them while they had an intimate relationship or were just cuddling with their girlfriends.

PEEP SHOW
The modern world has found numerous ways to legalize voyeurism and to free such individuals from any guilt and wrongful steps. In brothels, in the civilized West of Europe, but practically also on the streets of cities where there is great sexual tolerance, there are places available for legal voyeurism. Simply put, one should go to Peep show rooms where in cramped hallways there are small booths, barely sufficient for one person to enter. Men, professional voyeurs can close themselves in those booths and by inserting a certain amount of money into a designated machine in each booth, experience the opening of a small window through which they can enjoy watching a woman in her intimacy to their heart's content. Depending on the time of day, looseness, and most importantly, it also depends on the price, every voyeur who can pay to see it is given the opportunity to enjoy the most ordinary undressing of some woman, whether her masturbation or enjoying the scenes of the sexual act itself, and that to their heart's content, as long as they have bills in their pockets. Of course, in this situation, every, even uneducated voyeur, is aware of the fact that in the space they are staring into, women perform that job professionally, indifferently, and most often with a feeling of disgust and humiliation. However, for a professional voyeur, that is better than sneaking around the suburbs and lurking for delicious scenes behind carelessly drawn curtains and being constantly afraid of being noticed and forced to flee, and possibly even getting beaten.

BACKWARD ON THE ROAD
We, without false modesty, as one of the few remaining backward cultures on the edge of the East, must treat our "maniacs - voyeurs" in a different way, in the final case with gentleness and affection and understanding. The state still squints at erotic literature and press, or squints at the flood of pornographic video tapes for home self-satisfaction, which is a harmless dose of voyeurism.
Let us remember how at the beginning of the nineties, at the dying breath of socialist comrades, erotic transformation began in our country, and every larger city possessed at least one corner dedicated to voyeurs. The business initiative at the end of the last century in the form of open houses, so-called Peep show corners, has unfortunately failed, as modern comrades still keep sex away from the ordinary population with legal paragraphs, and those beginnings of freer behavior on the threshold of Europe have certainly been abolished. Taxpayers prone to peeking must practice such passion in nearby Trieste, Graz, on the Slovenian coast, thanks to the intolerance of municipal officials and free-minded people armed with paragraphs. Of course, not allowing the opening of a corner for voyeurs is considered a foolish consideration for a tourist state.

EROTIC VENTIL
Therefore, it is not at all pretentious to conclude that erotic press is a kind of vent for various hidden human, even voyeuristic passions. Moralists do not recognize this, especially not these liars from the socialist establishment who in recent decades have claimed all possible privileges for intimate orgies, but who have powerfully imposed puritanical morality on the masses. Fortunately, such barriers are slowly but surely being broken down, and we are at least equalized at the level of visual enjoyment if we cannot completely remove the remaining privileges.

Voyeurs from all countries have long since united, and we could just begin to do so, especially thanks to erotic sites like this one that allow us to peek into someone else's intimacy unpunished and for little money.