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I Am Cheating on My Husband with His Brother
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Dear Veronika!
I am reaching out sincerely hoping that you will help me resolve my doubts and fears. I am a happily married thirty-year-old woman, living in a truly harmonious marriage with a man who provides me with both material and spiritual security; he is also caring and gentle. Sexually, even after nine years together, we are still attracted to each other and in sync. You might be wondering where the problem lies?
The problem is, and it's a big one (literally and metaphorically), with my husband's younger brother who has been living with us since he started college. About six months ago, returning home unexpectedly, I caught him watching a porn video and masturbating his exceptionally large penis. As if enchanted, I approached him and took him in my mouth, then started wildly sucking and then riding him. Our connection has lasted since then, and on my part, it is so passionate that I am literally burning. I adore giving oral to my brother-in-law's huge thing and jumping on it, but on the other hand, my conscience is tearing me apart for cheating on the man I truly love, unfortunately, in the most brutal and insidious way. I ask you for advice, although I probably can already guess what the best solution is.
Tina
Dear Tina!
I have experienced a situation similar to yours, the only difference being that my relationship with the man I cheated on was not formalized. I remember how the feeling of cheating was terribly burdensome, completely different from the feeling I had when I cheated on partners with whom I was not in love. I recommend that you try to view your situation as if you are not directly involved, as this will help you make the only correct sober decision more easily. In any case, I believe that the most correct action would be to end the relationship with the young man before your husband suspects anything.
Perhaps you can try to heal your overwhelming passion for the young man by, if you have the opportunity, establishing a sexual connection with another man. It would also be good to try to arrange something nice for the young man, as this will help him reduce his libido and passion for you. In parallel, persuade the young man to move out of your home for any reasonable excuse. The principle of out of sight, out of mind... always proves to be true. I wish you the best of luck.
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