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Is There No Hope for Oral Sex?
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Dear Madam!
I believe I need your help, which is why I am reaching out to you, as I have lost all hope of finding a woman to satisfy me orally. So far, I have placed ads in several erotic magazines looking for a woman who enjoys oral sex.
In the two years I have been trying to achieve this, I have received more than twenty offers in response to my ads, but I have never fulfilled my desire. Several times I was convinced that my wish would come true, but each time it fell through for inexplicable reasons. I am a regular reader of your publication and I see that there are many women who enjoy oral sex. I constantly fantasize about it, but I have no luck.
In the last issue, I read how the mother of Saša's girlfriend tells him that he has a nice and big cock and that she has never seen one like it and would love to suck it and feel it deep inside her. This means many women crave for a cock to suck, and I cannot experience that in any way. Oh, how happy I would be to meet a woman who would gladly suck me off. I would be immensely grateful to her. Please advise me on what to do, otherwise I will go crazy. I am even contemplating suicide. Veronika, help me!
Your sincere and devoted reader
Anđelko
Dear Anđelko,
Your inclination towards fellatio is not surprising at all; on the contrary, it is truly characteristic of the male gender - as shown by many established surveys, including one we conducted. However, I must tell you that with the "hard" stance and vocabulary you use in this letter, and I assume in your ads as well, it is unlikely that you will get what you long for. You must approach communication with the fairer sex in a much more subtle, gentler manner, and your, one could say, childlike sincerity is commendable.
Moreover, if you are trying to achieve oral sex through intimate ads, it would be wise to offer counter-services, that is, to seek and offer a broader range of activities. It is certain that there is, as surveys confirm, a large number of women who enjoy performing fellatio, but it is also quite certain that most of them associate it with feelings, so I recommend that you act in that direction. When creating small ads, I direct you to consult with our editorial team, which will be willing to help.
Good luck!
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